Deep Life Reflections: Friday Five
Issue 129 - Comments
What’s the song that means the most to you?
Welcome to Issue 129 of Deep Life Reflections.
After last week’s issue, a long-time reader wrote in with a suggestion: what about adding A Song to Note to the newsletter? He felt Daft Punk’s Human After All would’ve been a fitting companion to last week’s theme of what makes good people do bad things. It’s a great idea—and it helped inspire this week’s reflection on music, memory, and meaning.
For some time, I’ve wanted to dedicate an issue to music videos on YouTube—not just for the amazing performances, but for the comments beneath them, which I always like to read. Those comment sections are unlike almost anything else online. Scroll down and you don’t find aggression, baiting, or cynicism, but something more tender: strangers sharing very specific experiences and memories of their lives in public; little confessions about the way a song or performance has stayed with them. Like the man who wrote that Creedence Clearwater Revival’s Long As I Can See the Light helped him survive 42 years in prison.
It’s moving. And that’s not a word we often associate with the internet.
This week, I’ve chosen five live performances that are some of my all-time favourites. Not only are they unbelievably good, each has drawn an outpouring of memory, reverence, or reflection in the comments. A slice of the full spectrum of humanity—nostalgia, grief, awe, love. These comments don’t feel performative. There’s no posturing. We don’t know these people and we’ll never meet them. Yet, in their words and stories, they bind us and lift us because we can relate to them.
I hope like me you find something powerful in these live performances. I encourage you to take some time this weekend to watch/listen to them. You’ll feel something really good. That’s the collective power of music. It’s primal and reaches into our memory and soul, turning it into something we want to share with others.
So, please join me for this week’s musically-inspired Friday Five.
No need for a ticket: you’re VIP Access All Areas 🎟️
🎙️ Five Legendary Live Performances 🎙️
1. Unchained Melody. Bobby Hatfield.
Live on the Andy Williams Show, 1965
Simply one of the greatest live performances ever recorded. One half of The Righteous Brothers, Bobby Hatfield’s voice was a gift—pure, soaring, honeyed. For this performance, his mother was in the audience, and he was nervous. The small smile at the end, just after he nails the falsetto climax, is his recognition that he’d delivered something she would be proud of. The comments are a testimony to the power of that voice and the memories it created across generations.
Viewer comment:
“I was 15 years old when I watched him sing this beautiful song on the Andy Williams show in 1965. Bobby nailed it! No one sang it like he did.. RIP Bobby… We miss your beautiful voice.”
Watch the video 🎥
2. Bring It On Home To Me. Sam Cooke.
Live at The Harlem Square Club, 1963
There isn’t even a video for this one—just a still, grainy photo of Sam Cooke with his guitar. Doesn’t matter. You can feel the sweat of that Harlem crowd, the electricity and anticipation. Cooke doesn’t launch straight into the song. For the first 2 minutes and 40 seconds he works the crowd, preacher-style, pounding his chest, building it. Then the band kicks in, and the whole place goes up. It’s primal and blistering.
Viewer comment:
“I wish you could have seen him perform live, because you would have seen something wonderful. I know because I was right there in the audience that night in Miami, Florida, when he recorded this very album! And it was nothing short of electrifying! Sam was one of a kind… Lord knows how I miss those days.”
Watch the video 🎥
3. Brothers In Arms. Dire Straits.
Live at the Nelson Mandela Tribute Concert, 1988
Mark Knopfler, lead guitarist, singer, and songwriter of Dire Straits, has that rare ability to make a guitar transmit all the emotions of a human being—while still being restrained. With his masterpiece, Brothers In Arms, he shares a universal message of loss, comradeship, and unity with 100,000 people. From 5:26, the guitar has fully become its own voice. As one fan wrote, “There are two singers in this song, Mark and his guitar.”
Viewer Comment:
“I lost my brother to cancer and this was his favourite song. RIP Peter James Richardson. Thinking of everyone and their families in the same boat. X”
Watch the video 🎥
4. Nessun Dorma. Luciano Pavarotti.
Live from The Three Tenors in Concert, 1994
For a certain generation—mine, growing up in the U.K.—this aria is forever linked to the Italia ’90 World Cup. By 1994, Pavarotti had likely sung Nessun Dorma a thousand times, yet he delivered it here with the same passion and intensity as if it were the first. The look on his face at the end feels like a moment where he transcended space and time. It’s incredible. Combined with the crowd’s eruption, it becomes monumental.
Viewer Comment:
“Hello! My name is Mark Charig and I was actually playing First Cornet here in the orchestra! It was an absolute pleasure playing with opera icon, Pavarotti!”
Watch the video 🎥
5. Somebody To Love. Queen.
Live in Montreal, 1981
“Ok, let’s do it.” And with that, we have one of the greatest rock performances by one of the greatest stage performers of all time. Perhaps Queen’s best song, it’s timeless plea for connection—“find me somebody to love”—speaks to all. With Freddie Mercury’s delivery, magnetism, and emotion, it traverses the sad to the sublime. When the song launches into its final climax at 5:27, drummer Roger Taylor’s brilliant backing vocals remind us just how talented this band was.
Viewer Comment:
“Today is the anniversary of his passing and also the anniversary of this concert. We are all lucky because we have various opportunities to enjoy this gig. And he is still alive, beautiful and young in our hearts!”
Watch the video 🎥
A Question for You
When has music helped you through a situation when words could not?
Thanks for reading, listening, and reflecting this week. Did one of those performances stand out for you? Or perhaps you have a favourite performance you return to often?
If you have any reflections on this issue, please feel free to leave a comment on my website or drop me a message.
Have a great weekend. Stay intentional. Listen to music.
James
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