Reflections
Deep Life Reflections
Essays inspired by Cinema, Literature, and Culture.
Every Friday, I publish Deep Life Reflections, essays on the ideas that shape how we live and think—drawing from cinema, literature, and culture.
Explore the full archive below, now with over 150 essays. You can also search by keyword or theme. I always welcome your reflections and comments.
The Weight of a Dedication
A few words at the front of a book can say more than everything that follows.
What It Means to Live Well at 50
Turning 50 sharpens a simple question: what does it mean to live well?
Can One Word Explain a Life?
The idea that one word could explain a life is tempting—and almost certainly wrong.
What We're Really Afraid Of
Most of the fears we talk about aren’t the ones that actually drive us.
Why We Make Decisions We Regret
Most of our decisions feel right. That doesn’t mean they are.
The Return of Autumn
We like to think things return to us. Seasons. Places. Versions of ourselves. But they never come back the same.
Becoming a Beginner
There’s a particular kind of discomfort in not even understanding the question.
In the Comments Below
There’s a place online where people still speak honestly and it’s not where you’d expect.
Paradise Lost
The difference between good and evil is often not who we are, but where we find ourselves.
Five Things a Move Forces You to Confront
When we move home, we often think we’re moving our lives. In reality, a move shows us how little of it was ever fixed.
Unannounced
Some of the most important moments in life give no notice. And refuse to repeat.